JFCS Supported Employment Client Enjoys the Fruits of his Labors!

img_6061.pngHardworking. Positive. Punctual. These are just a few of the words Joey’s colleagues at Pinelands Recovery Center in Medford, NJ use to describe him. Diagnosed as a child with a variety of developmental delays, Joey, now 25, has come a long way since he began working at Pinelands in 2015 as a recent graduate of the JFCS Soups and Sweets culinary training program. At first, Joey struggled with his daily tasks and was unsure of his own abilities. No one was convinced he was up to the challenge. “The job was a little more advanced than we expected. That first month was tough,” recalled Joey’s mom, Denise. “I really thought it wasn’t for him.” But Denise quietly encouraged Joey to persist, telling him at the end of each week to “give it another week.”

With a suggestion from Denise, Joey’s supervisor, Chef Victor Martin, reached out to the JFCS Supported Employment Program for guidance. Joey was paired with a job coach and given ongoing follow-along coaching. Little by little, he became more comfortable in his role and developed relationships with his colleagues. With the proper support in place, Joey began to thrive in his duties—and eventually became such an asset in the kitchen he was enlisted to help train and support another JFCS client. “Joey’s growth as not only an employee, but as a person, has been amazing to watch,” said Chef Martin. “We have given him opportunities to succeed and his confidence has improved exponentially. Now Joey is just a regular part of the staff. He’s not the same person who first walked into my kitchen.”

For Joey, success isn’t just about what he does in the kitchen. It’s about being part of something. “Whatever they need me to do, I’ll do,” he says. “I like the camaraderie.” A few years ago, Joey took the initiative to begin helping with inventory in the Pinelands kitchen. As a result, his reading and writing skills improved tremendously, which helped enable him to become more independent in his personal life.

“I always encouraged my kids to go after what they wanted in life, and Joey was no Joey at Home 1exception,” said Denise. “From a young age, he always wanted to cook, so we helped him to make that happen.” As Joey’s self-reliance grew, he began talking to his mother about moving out of the family home—something he had wanted for years but hadn’t been ready for until now. This dream became a reality earlier this year, when Joey moved into his own. Although receives support with buying groceries, clothes shopping, and transportation, he is creating a life of his own—including inviting friends from the JFCS SAIL (Supports to Achieve Independent Living) program over for movie nights and game nights. “I didn’t sleep for the first month,” said Denise. She is slowly getting used to Joey living on his own. “He thinks he’s a rock star,” she said, and we’re inclined to agree!

The Impact of Trauma: Effects of Community Violence

 By Carlos Bermeo, LCSW, NBCCH, JFCS Director of Clinical Services

There is resounding evidence that individuals living in communities where violence is carlos trauma articleprevalent are at increased risk for a broad range of negative health and behavior outcomes. But violence isn’t prevalent in our community…is it? The truth is that every household is exposed daily to a level of chronic, pervasive, and sustained violence. Sadly, the recent attack at Chabad of Poway near San Diego touched communities just like ours across the country—and although we continue to stand against hate and senseless violence, the damage is palpable and could affect us for some time to come.

With thirteen identifiable types of trauma, the Poway shooting can be classified as community violence, terrorism, complex trauma, traumatic grief, and early childhood trauma. Exposure to trauma stemming from community violence is directly linked to negative impacts on mental health, making it a strong risk factor for depression, anxiety, and aggression—particularly in adolescents. Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), substance abuse, sleep disturbances, and suicidal ideation also may develop as a direct result of community violence.

Consequences of Community Violence on Mental Health

  • Increased incidence of anger, anxiety, withdrawal, dissociation, and post-traumatic stress disorder
  • Increased incidence of substance abuse, sleep disturbance, hypersensitivity to perceived threats, and suicidal ideation
  • Transgenerational effects on mental health
  • Intrusive thoughts about traumatic events
  • Appearance of “pathological adaptations” including desensitization to violence, fatalistic thoughts, hopelessness, and stunted moral development

What Do I Say to My Kids? While many parents struggle with what to say to their children, others opt to say nothing or avoid the conversation in hopes of shielding their children. Here are some suggestions to help parents broach the issue. As always, be mindful of each child’s ability to take in and comprehend information.

  • Let preschoolers and kindergartners take the lead in the conversation. Make sure your child knows you are there to answer any questions. The issue does not need to be brought up unless a child hears about it first.
  • Parents can be more direct with elementary school-aged children. Preemptively let them know about the tragedy. Share basic details and leave the door open for them to ask questions. Although children may initially say that they are okay, that does not mean parents shouldn’t talk about it.
  • Parents should have a more detailed conversation with teenagers. Start by asking questions like, “Have you heard about this?” and “What do you think about it?” to find out what they already know and what might be bothering them.

Children want and need to know they are safe. Talk with your kids about creating a safety plan and make sure they know what to do in an emergency. Although many parents’ first instinct is to say that everything is okay, we should provide our children with the reassurance that they are safe in the here and now. Finally, parents and caregivers should remember their own self-care and take the time to reflect on their own feelings. Additional resources are available through the National Institute of Mental Health or by contacting JFCS Counseling Department at (856) 424-1333 or https://jfcssnj.org/counseling/.

More Than A Car Ride…Volunteer Drivers Provide Comfort & Companionship to JFCS Clients

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The relationship between volunteer drivers and clients is mutually rewarding.

Miriam enjoyed a successful career as a high-fashion retail clothing consultant. Accustomed to meeting and interacting with people every day, she spent decades running here and there, always in heels, choosing outfits that would turn heads and make people wonder, “Where did she get that dress? I need it!” Now in her eighties, Miriam misses those days. Due to serious injuries that resulted from falling down a flight of concrete stairs, she suddenly lost the level of mobility and freedom she had always taken for granted. It took a year and a half to heal after her fall, and she still has trouble walking.

“For people like me, it’s so hard to keep asking friends for help; they have lives, too,” Miriam says. “You feel embarrassed that you can’t do it yourself, so you just stop going to the doctor…or go less often.” Luckily, Miriam found the help she needed through the volunteer transportation services offered by JFCS. “In the three years since I have started using volunteer drivers, I have loved every single one. The women and men who drive me are so kind, but more than that, they feel like friends. We have a real rapport, and I kiss them on the cheek when I leave them!”

For Miriam and many older adults, the inability to drive represents a loss of freedom, independence, and control. Family members, neighbors, and friends can’t always be counted on to meet their needs, and the frightening reality is that when seniors don’t have access to transportation, they simply don’t go to the doctor when they need to. JFCS helps to bridge this gap by offering vetted, reliable volunteers, at the touch of a phone, to drive clients to medical and wellness appointments at no or nominal cost.

JFCS offers several programs for volunteer drivers and clients. Medical Appointment Transportation Volunteers drive clients to and from doctor appointments, therapies, and wellness appointments. In addition, volunteers are occasionally needed to transport JFCS counseling clients to and from their therapy appointments at the agency’s main location in Cherry Hill. For those looking to build deeper relationships, Patient Partners Advocates not only drive clients to and from doctor appointments, but they also attend doctors’ visits with the clients, take notes, help patients understand important medical information, and schedule follow-up appointments. Patient Partners Advocates receive training from JFCS nurses and social workers for this service opportunity. Take the Wheel provides free rides for veterans from other veterans and local volunteers to medical appointments at area physicians’ offices, as well as the Philadelphia VA Medical Center. These services are available to veterans living in Camden, Burlington, and Gloucester Counties.

The special relationship that develops between volunteers and clients is mutually rewarding, creating much-needed opportunities for social interaction and human connection. Says Marty, a longtime volunteer driver and JFCS Volunteer of the Year in 2018, “The clients are warm and friendly. They really show me appreciation. No matter what is going on in my life, these clients have more challenges, more needs, and more stories. I love being involved in their lives.” A retired teacher with time on his hands, Marty jumped at the opportunity when his wife saw an ad for JFCS volunteer drivers. “I have changed as a person because of my experience here. The clients make me want to extend myself even further,” says Marty. “This experience has helped me become a better human being.”

JFCS is actively seeking new volunteer drivers to put the wheels into motion for our clients. We encourage eligible community members to become a part of these programs and experience the rewarding journey of volunteering. Volunteer drivers must be over the age of 18 and should have the flexibility to pick and choose rides that fit within their schedules. The majority of rides requested are Monday through Friday between 8:30am and 4pm. Whether you can provide one ride per week or one ride a month, JFCS can use your help. All new volunteers must complete a vetting process, which includes an application, background check, reference check, and a brief training session. If you would like to become a volunteer driver, please contact Sherri Jonas at (856) 424-1333 ext. 1180 or Randi Brown at (856) 424-1333 ext. 1541.

 

Hunger Hits Close to Home in South Jersey…but You Can Help!

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Although New Jersey is one of the wealthiest states in the nation, almost one third of the foodinsecuritystate’s residents do not earn enough to afford life’s core necessities: food and housing. There are over 1.1 million food-insecure people living in New Jersey, with young children being particularly vulnerable. Consistent access to food rich in nutrients, vitamins, and minerals is a vital component of both physical growth and brain development. Research has shown that food-insecure children struggle in social situations and face challenges with learning and memory. But food insecurity is about more than just hunger: the stress of not having enough food at home, or not knowing where their next meal is coming from, can negatively impact a family’s sense of security and stability.

But there is hope and there is help for those struggling in South Jersey. JFCS’s Betsy and Peter Fischer Food Pantries help to fill the void of food insecurity by providing nutritious, non-perishable food and personal care items to clients living in Camden, Burlington, and Gloucester Counties. The food pantry is nondenominational, and no one is ever turned away. After the client completes a brief intake process, he or she can schedule a monthly appointment pick up food from the pantry. Because the JFCS pantry is more than just a drop-in center to pick up food, the monthly appointments provide an opportunity for clients to break their sense of isolation as they “shop” at the pantry. It also lets JFCS case managers get to know individual clients and families, and potentially identify additional programs and benefits to support their needs.

Although the pantry receives grant funding and food donations from retailers like Whole Foods and Mom’s Organic Market, as well as local synagogues and produce co-ops, it relies heavily on individual donations of kosher, non-perishable food items year-round. The pantry typically sees a large influx of food donations each Fall, leading up to the High Holiday season and continuing through Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, and Christmas, after which donations tend to taper off. But hunger strikes in the Spring and Summer months as well, and our clients consistently need food throughout the year.

Here’s where YOU come into the picture…As you begin to prepare your household for Purim and Passover, please remember our local neighbors who are in need and consider donating food to the JFCS pantry. Nutritious and filling items such as canned or dried beans, rice, pasta, canned tuna and salmon, pancake mix, and cereal are always needed, as well as other seasonal items like Gefilte fish and Matzah around the holidays. If you would like to donate food or to get involved by volunteering at one of the three pantry locations, please contact Meri Seligman at 856-424-1333 or mseligman@jfedsnj.org.

Parental Bereavement Group to begin March 2019

NoPrint matter how old your child was or how he/she passed away, the grief of loss can be overwhelming. Our Parental Bereavement Group is here to provide support through a time in life that no parent should ever have to experience. Join us for comfort, compassion and mutual understanding from others.

Beginning March 13, the group will meet once a week for eight weeks. There is no fee to attend this support group sponsored by the Sharing and Healing while Mourning our Children Foundation – In loving memory of Matthew Bandler Minches, Jamie Brooke Lieberman, and Joel Lawrence Weiner.

For more information, please call (856) 424-1333.

The Value of a JFCS Resource Consultation

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We all want the same things as we grow older.  We want to age gracefully.  We want to maintain an independent, active lifestyle.  We want to live on our own terms, without being reliant upon others.  These wishes, however, must be balanced with the limitations that often come with the aging process, such as physical and cognitive issues, visual impairment, and reduction of strength and mobility.  Many people want to explore safe housing options.  For those individuals and family members that find themselves in need of clarity, the question of how to sustain overall wellness can be daunting.

Through our 60+ Services Department, JFCS offers an answer:
The Resource Consultation

An excellent first step to understanding opportunities and options within the community, the resource consultation, at a cost of $300,* is an individualized and comprehensive appointment for older adults, their care partners, and/or their adult children.  One does not need to be a client of JFCS to schedule a resource consultation, and there is no obligation to acquire JFCS services thereafter.

In this meeting, an experienced staff member will engage in discussion about the individual’s unique situation.  What are their perceived issues?  What are their challenges?  What supports do they have in place? How does their financial situation lend itself to solving these problems?  Frequently, upon further exploration, it is discovered that there are related needs and questions, beyond the issues initially discussed.  Within a resource consultation, individuals will receive general information about aging as well as information specific to their health and living situation.  Such information may include venues for socialization, support groups, and options for transportation.  There can be a review of current medical needs, financial circumstances, insurance options, and eligibility for public entitlements such as Veterans benefits or Medicaid.

Common questions discussed at the resource consultation may include:

  • What does it mean to age in place?
  • When is it safer to move from home to assisted living?
  • What services can be brought into the home and what is covered by insurance?
  • How do I advocate for myself with my care providers?
  • What supports are out there to help cope with transitions?
  • How do I choose a homecare agency?
  • When is it better to have live-in care vs. hourly care?
  • What is the difference between a Continuing Care Retirement Community (CCRC) and an Assisted Living Community?
  • Would I benefit from a consultation with an elder law attorney?
  • Can I access Medicaid services while still living at home?
  • As a Veteran, am I eligible for financial assistance to pay for care?
  • What services does my insurance cover and what is private pay?

The consultation may be a one-time event, or it may be a springboard for case management and supportive services as needs arise.  The Jones** family first met Rebecca Rosenau, Director of 60+ Services, in 2010, for a resource consultation, which was sought to address Mr. Jones’ developing Alzheimer’s. Their son had this to say about the consultation and ensuing relationship:

With sensitivity, patience, incredible communication skills and careful, open-ended           questioning, Rebecca established a beautiful rapport with my mother while also            identifying areas of concern and options for addressing them.  Many things were       implemented during these years including volunteers to drive Mom to eye injection     appointments, housekeeping services, holiday meal deliveries, a lifting recliner chair,   emergency responder services, and referrals to adult day care for Dad that gave Mom      much-needed respite.

The staff of the JFCS 60+ Services Department possess tremendous expertise on issues of aging.  Through a resource consultation, they can provide a sounding board, thoughtful guidance, and tools to make the most informed decision.  Most importantly, through their wealth of resources, they can provide peace of mind.  If you, your loved one, or a friend are not sure how to best move forward, please call (856) 424-1333 and ask for Senior Services Intake.

*We offer sliding scale fees based upon income.
**Client name has been changed to protect confidentiality.

JFCS 2018 CALENDAR

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JULY 2018

Low Vision Support Group

July 11, 2018 –  1 PM – 2:30 PM

Contact: Hilary Gould, MSW, LSW  at 856-424-1333, Ext. 1016  or email hgould@jfedsnj.org. Grant funding provided by Jewish Community Foundation 

 

Cafe Connection – A Memory Cafe

July 12 @ 10:00 am – 12:00 pm

Katz JCC, 1301 Springdale Road
Cherry Hill, NJ 08003 United States 
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Cafe’ Connection – a  Memory Cafe’ is a social gathering for anyone affected with memory challenges an their care partners.  Please join us from 10 AM – Noon to enjoy coffee, conversation, a creative experience with a guest artist, and learn about community resources. A lunch and passes to the Movement and Motivation wellness class at Katz JCC will also be offered to attendees for later that day. To register, contact Reva Farenback-Brateman at 856-424-1333, Ext. 1184.  Grant funding is provided by The Camden County Board of Freeholders and Jewish Community Foundation.  The program is brought to the community through a collaboration of JFCS, JSHHS, and the Katz JCC.

 

Aging With Pride – LGBT Group for Older Adults

July 13 @ 12:00 pm – 2:00 pm

This program offers a welcoming atmosphere to share resources, build relationships, learn about JFCS services, and discuss unique LGBT issues, such as social isolation and discrimination.  For more information, please contact Reva Farenback-Brateman, MSW, CDP at 856-424-1333, Ext. 1184 or email rfbrateman@jfedsnj.org.  Sponsored by the Timothy Rice Estate and Elder Law Firm.

 

Project Rainbow Pool Party!

Thursday, July 19th,  6-8 PM at the JCC Camps at Medford!

For LGBTQ teens and their allies. Swimming, pizza, dinner! Free to Everyone. RSVP by July 9th to Nancy Lubars at 856-424-1333, xt 1725 or email  nlubars@jfedsnj.org   This program is a collaboration of Katz JCC & JFCS.  Grant funding by Jewish Community Foundation. 

 

 Low Vision Workshop

July 23, 2018 – 1 PM – 2:30 PM

with Jeffrey Clark fro The Seeing Eye

Contact: Hilary Gould, MSW, LSW  at 856-424-1333, Ext. 1016  or email hgould@jfedsnj.org.  Grant funding provided by Jewish Community Foundation 

 

AUGUST 2018

Cafe’ Connection – A Memory Cafe’

August 9 @ 10:00 am – 12:00 pm

Katz JCC, 1301 Springdale Road
Cherry Hill, NJ 08003 United States 
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Cafe’ Connection – a  Memory Cafe’ is a social gathering for anyone affected with memory challenges an their care partners.  Please join us from 10 AM – Noon to enjoy coffee, conversation, a creative experience with a guest artist, and learn about community resources. A lunch and passes to the Movement and Motivation wellness class at Katz JCC will also be offered to attendees for later that day. To register, contact Reva Farenback-Brateman at 856-424-1333, Ext. 1184. Grant funding is provided by The Camden County Board of Freeholders and Jewish Community Foundation.  The program is brought to the community through a collaboration of JFCS, JSHHS, and the Katz JCC.

Aging With Pride – LGBT Group for Older Adults

August 10 @ 12:00 pm – 2:00 pm

This program offers a welcoming atmosphere to share resources, build relationships, learn about JFCS services, and discuss unique LGBT issues, such as social isolation and discrimination.  For more information, please contact Reva Farenback-Brateman, MSW, CDP at 856-424-1333, Ext. 1184 or email rfbrateman@jfedsnj.orgSponsored by the Timothy Rice Estate and Elder Law Firm.

Low Vision Workshop

August 13, 2018

Featuring: Susan Vanino, Support Program Coordinator, for ASPIRE with CBVI from 1 PM – 2:30 PM. Contact: Hilary Gould, MSW, LSW at 856-424-1333, Ext. 1016 or email hgould@jfedsnj.org.  Grant funding provided by Jewish Community Foundation.

SEPTEMBER 2018

Cafe’ Connection- A Memory Cafe’

September 13 @ 10:00 am – 12:00 pm

Katz JCC, 1301 Springdale Road
Cherry Hill, NJ 08003 United States 
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Cafe’ Connection – a  Memory Cafe’ is a social gathering for anyone affected with memory challenges an their care partners.  Please join us from 10 AM – Noon to enjoy coffee, conversation, a creative experience with a guest artist, and learn about community resources. A lunch and passes to the Movement and Motivation wellness class at Katz JCC will also be offered to attendees for later that day. To register, contact Reva Farenback-Brateman at 856-424-1333, Ext. 1184. Grant funding is provided by The Camden County Board of Freeholders and Jewish Community Foundation.  The program is brought to the community through a collaboration of JFCS, JSHHS, and the Katz JCC.

 

JFCS Annual Meeting and Recognition of Board, Staff & Volunteers

September 13 @ 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm

Katz JCC, 1301 Springdale Road
Cherry Hill, NJ 08003 United States 
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JFCS Annual Meeting & Recognition of Board, Staff & Volunteers Sponsored by: Katz Jewish Community Center Kresson & Springdale Roads Cherry Hill, New Jersey 08003 No charge to attend, but registration is required. Spouses and friends are welcome. For more information, please contact Beth Wynne at 856-424-1333, xt. 1179    Find out more »

No-Cost Caregiver Support Group Offers Resources and More

About 34.2 million Americans have provided unpaid care to an adult age 50 or older in the last 12 months – and 15% of those individuals are responsible for the care of not one – but two – adults.  Additionally, about 15.7 million adult family caregivers in the United States care for someone who has Alzheimer’s disease or other dementia.  Caregivers are not alone in this world. In fact, the numbers suggest that there are many people who share the same concerns, struggles, and hopes on a daily basis.

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Registration is now open to join the free JFCS Caregivers Support Group, sponsored by Samaritan Healthcare & Hospice, which offers a welcoming atmosphere where caregivers can openly discuss their stressors, fears, and unique challenges. The group will present a space for caregivers of all ages to discuss topics that only other caregivers would understand, and is facilitated by a licensed social worker.

 

Those joining the group will learn coping skills, expression of emotions and feelings, and will discover a wealth of information on local supportive resources.

Whether you care for a child, sibling,  grandparent, spouse, neighbor, or parent, the one constant is that a caregiver needs to focus on their own well-being. In doing so, they can give their best attention to others and themselves.  Take time to share your voice and bond with others in this compassionate group, by contacting Sharon Nadler, MSW, LSW, at 856-424-1333, Ext. 1173, or email snadler@jfedsnj.org.

 

MRS BPO, LLC Employees Make Holiday Donation to Food Pantries

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MRS BPO, LLC employees generously donated many bags of food to our JFCS Betsy and Peter Fischer Food Pantries this week!  The MRS BPO food drive, held since Thankgsiving, is part of an ongoing partnership with JFCS, which will include upcoming gift drives, fundraising initiatives, and volunteer events.  Pictured here: Brian Erazmus, Jordan Miller, Jennifer Pate, and Nina Rios.  (Not pictured: Kelly Feoli,  Rob Topolewski, Lisa Saidel.)

Free BRCA Gene Webinar – December 20

Sharsheret will present a free national webinar, “BRCA Genetics In The News: What Do I Do Next?” on Wednesday, December 20th, at 8 p.m. EST.

The webinar features Sharsheret’s own Genetics Program Coordinator, Peggy Cottrell, MS, CGC, who will explore the latest critical genetics research, decode BRCA and other genetic  mutations, and help us understand what steps we need to take next. A Sharsheret peer supporter will share her personal story and a live question and answer session will follow the presentation.

To register for the webinar or to share the webinar with others in your network, click here.